she said.
“I’m learning, hon.”
She asked, “Do you still want to be a father?”
My mother nodded.
“Yes,” I said. “That hasn’t changed. But I won’t turn that truth into pressure on you. I need to understand what fatherhood means to me, and you need the freedom to decide what life you want. Neither of us gets to decide our future alone.”
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