At my sister’s wedding dinner my dad introduced me to the groom’s family and said ‘This is our daughter… she makes a living cleaning toilets.’ My mom sighed and added, ‘We stopped expecting anything from her a long time ago.’ The groom’s mother slowly tilted her head, studying my face, then murmured, ‘Hold on… aren’t you the woman who—’

a used cargo van, and a notebook of leads. I told them I cleaned exam rooms while studying licensing requirements in my car. I told them my first big client came because I answered a call at 5:40 a.m. when another company didn’t.

And yes, I told them I had cleaned toilets. Thousands of them.

Because it was never the insult people thought it was.
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