Family boundaries and celebrations: Why exclusion from a dinner plan led to a difficult decision regarding a birthday event

were “delayed”—back into my business account. With every “confirmed” that flashed on my screen, I felt lighter. The crushing weight on my chest began to lift, replaced by the buoyancy of freedom.

Then, the messages from Sean began to arrive.

First, they were annoyed. Anna, where are you? Stop being childish and come back.

Then, confused. Mother is upset.continue reading …