I gave birth 5 weeks ago to a baby with blonde hair and blue eyes

the lingering questions. We arranged to meet with Barbara for coffee in her home—somewhere comfortable for her, but with clear boundaries for us. Rowan’s father, Norman, was also there, quietly watching. Barbara poured coffee for everyone, her movements shaky, as though her nerves were getting the best of her.

After a moment of small talk, I looked continue reading …