My Daughter-in-Law Mocked Me for “Always Showing Up Empty-Handed,” but She Forgot Who Had Been Paying Their Mortgage

to know they are being held, and you have a right to be more than the thing that holds them, and sometimes the most loving thing you can possibly do, for them and for yourself, is to stand up at a barbecue with a glass in your hand and finally, calmly, warmly, let the whole family hear the sound your love has been making all along in the dark.