My mother-in-law pointed at the door during New Year’s dinner and snapped, **“If you don’t like my rules, get out!”** – Welcome

everyone’s schedules.

Made reservations.

Reminded Dad about birthday cards.

Checked whether Mom had enough ice before parties.

If two relatives weren’t speaking, I arranged the seating so dinner wouldn’t become uncomfortable.

If somebody forgot a gift, I usually had something extra.

I arrived early.

Stayed late.

Loaded the dishwasher while everyone else relaxed.continue reading …