My parents skipped my husband and children’s funeral for my sister’s birthday—six months later, one headline about me sent the entire family into panic
two people who missed them in exactly the same way.
One Wednesday in October, I found Noah’s toy dinosaur hidden inside my left shoe. I sat on the kitchen floor holding it and stayed there for a long time.
I also started making decisions.
Six weeks after the funeral, I rewrote my will and removed my parents as emergency contacts.