The 7:00 PM Pill: When “Nice” Isn’t Enough to Stay Married

small white pill exactly at 7:00 PM.

Not 8:00 PM. Not “at halftime.” 7:00 PM.

For years, I have been the invisible operating system of our household. I know when the property taxes are due. I know the passcode to the alarm system. I know which pharmacy takes our insurance.

Dave? Dave “helps.”

If I hand him a trash bag, he takes it out. If I write a list,continue reading …