When I was 12 years old, I stole something for the first time in my life. It was not for fun or rebellion. I stole flowers because my mother had died, and I wanted something beautiful to place on her grave.
She had been gone less than a year, but our home already felt empty. My father worked longer hours after she died, partly because we needed the money and partly because being home reminded him of what we had lost. Every Sunday, I walked alone to the cemetery and sat beside my mother’s grave. I would tell her about school, my dad, and how hard I was trying to be brave.
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