I never expected that cleaning out my grandmother’s closet would feel like stepping into a forgotten century. I thought the task would be simple—sort the clothing into donation piles, fold the sweaters that still smelled faintly of lavender, and tuck away the scarves she had knitted during winters that felt much colder than the ones we experience now. I began with the intention of efficiency, wanting to honor her belongings but also clear space for the practical needs of the living. But as anyone who has ever cleaned out a loved one’s home knows, practicality fades quickly. Memory steps in, slowing your hands, making every object heavier than it appears.
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